I've written about this before. Facebook Defriending. It's rude. For those of us who are not Facewhores, we don't have 679 friends, we are selective with who we friend. I happen to know everyone I'm friends with, and I happen to know how I know them as well. So, therefore we know if you defriend us. We've all been there. I know you've done it, you've looked when that number of friends fluctuates. You're like, "oh my god. 181? It was 182 yesterday! Who defriended me?!" Then eventually you figure it out. It's like someone punching you in the heart. It hurts. "why would they defriend me? I wasn't bothering them out there in cyberspace? Did I do something? Are they mad at me? Should I say something?....it's a horrible and unnecessary cause for alarm.
It's a cop out though. Cuz no one would EVER have the balls to say to someone's face "I officially defriend you as of right now", but since we can do it from the safety of our homes we do it frivolously. I've done 3 defriendings in my life. And I almost cried while pushing the button (they were necessary defriendtions...sadly). It's so rude, it hurts my heart. And there may be some people I shouldn't be friends with, but I'm not putting that shit out in the world to come back to me. I don't like it done to me, so I'm not gonna do it to someone else (even if they won't even notice I'm gone anyway).
So please, choose who you friend wisely. Cuz it hurts my heart. And I can't take anymore heartache....
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