Cheaters...ugh!

In light of the new Arnold Schwarzenegger scandal, I decided now was a good time to address cheating. It's the age old story: man cheats on great wife/girlfriend with a major downgrade, man gets caught, hangs his head in shame and states how he feels so very bad. Fuck you.

We hear of celebrities doing it because their lives are public but it happens on a daily basis to normal people all the time. We know why famous people can do it--because they have status and power and money. Soooo, what's John Smith's excuse? Nothing. Its for the same reason--insecurity and ego. Arnold, Tiger Woods, Jude Law(twice), Jesse James, Bill Clinton...all have(had) hot,smart, talented ladies and what do they do??? Oh yeah, they DO the maid, the babysitter, the porn star covered in tattoos. Why?? Because they know that the women they're with are so much better than they are and the male brain hates feeling inferior. So, they find that girl who isn't as beautiful or smart who makes them feel better about themselves because they actually are (for once) better than those downgrades. I mean, you're gonna cheat on Sienna Miller and Sandra Bullock!?! Have you lost your mind, buddy?? Your insecurities are your problem and that doesn't give you the right to hurt the people who, for whatever reason, care about you. Also, if you really want to hurt that person then UPGRADE. Because it feels worse having to say: "oh man! That chick my boyfriend just fucked is way hotter and smarter than me. I feel like a total loser", instead of: "what the hell is wrong with him?? That girl is disgusting. I'm so much better than her and him. What a stupid loser". Now you just made yourself look like an idiot. Dummy.

It's horrible. And they must know that they will get caught. And John Smith knows that at the local bar there's a couple girls who have no problem going home with him at 1am whether or not he has a girlfriend/wife. These guys know that it's easier to buy this chick a couple of drinks to get her to have sex with him instead of having to take that amazing girl he met last week to dinner and the movies a few times before getting in her pants. And that's what I, and girls like me, have to battle on a daily basis. Its hard enough finding 1 or 2 guys who are worthy of our time but then we have to battle those cuntasauri who will sleep with him any time anywhere.

I have enough guy friends and have seen and heard enough to know that there's an abundance of THOSE girls who give the rest of us a bad rep. So when you finally do meet a guy, he's so used to girls like that, that he doesn't know how to properly interact with you. It's so messed up. And I know that not ALL guys are like that but the percentage is creeping up. It's even the guys you never thought could do that who are doing it anyway. And I hate to chalk it up to: it's because he can. But, he can. And unless we get rid of all THOSE whorebags, it's going to continue. But I will not be swayed into becoming one of them. You're going to have to work for this, buddy. And if that's too much work for you, then I don't need you.